Just A Candid Conversation:)

Hey guys! I’m back with yet another session of encouraging you kill the mosquito, which was about to bite you in the previous blog. Just kidding! (source:Is it that difficult to sync?)

This content today is not exactly a blog. This is more of a candid conversation about various questions and queries which still have not reached to their answers. This journal today is about the most asked questions on google. I am unsure about if I’d really be able to answer each question but c’mon fellas! let’s give it a try. Trust me, I haven’t even googled the questions by now. I swear!

 Also, an important disclaimer before I start with my unasked lecture on life.

Disclaimer: All the answers I write, are the result of my perspective towards things. And as I already have discussed about the varied perspectives of variety of people, in my previous blogs,(Referred: It is okay to be flawed!) this is to clear the misconception of any being, finding my answers offensive or invalid. I know and completely understand that different people with different situations, different sufferings and different environments may have different concepts of life and each one of them is unique, when it comes to tackling and handling situations. Basically, every mindset might not think in the same way as me. Agreed and checked!

Also read: A perfect recipe of life

So, on this notion, let’s get started!!! 

1.   How meaningful is my life?

Hmm…So, people from across the world, today, are searching for meaning of their lives huh? And as they are living in different parts of the world, they are most probably living the different phases of their life right now. Some maybe in the happiest phase of their life right now, while for some, life is nothing but a series of continuous disappointment. But, if you ask me… Well, why would you in the first place:/ But that’s alright. So, according to me the real meaning of the life comes with the thought of being satisfied. Satisfied, with what you are doing, or wearing or eating etc. Being satisfied with everything you have, implies, whether at all, you are really living a meaningful life or not. Because, if nothing, then greed would result you in a web of dismay, returning from where would be next to impossible.

    2. What can I do, that I’m currently not doing?

There is a term called introspection, which means to examine one’s own thoughts and feelings (source: Google). According to me, a person’s potential and interests cannot be defined by his/her academic excellence in a particular subject. There’s more to a human mind, which can be identified and realized by no other but the person himself/ herself. All you need to do is to introspect. Think about what you are interested in and would for sure excel in it, if given a chance to. Usually people confuse this idea with the thought of the things they admire watching. E.g. some people love to watch cricket matches but are not that good when it comes to their playing it. And they misconceive it with their passion and end up believing themselves to be useless. Therefore, the crux of all of this comes out to be that you are the one who knows, the true power and talent of yours. But what matters in all this is your realization of your true self and that can be only achieved through introspecting.

3.     How can I get better at what I do?

Well, why just wanna be better at your stuff and not the best? Sometimes, people aim for less, and so they achieve less. But in the process, they forget about an element of extreme importance and that very element is called patience. People today rush after their dreams and don’t wanna wait for the right time to avail their fruits. They want everything to happen quickly. For them, nothing is stagnant and therefore, they are distracted every time. It is important for people to recognize the significance of patience. That everything will reach to them but at the right time. And here, it doesn’t mean everything will reach to them without even working for it; that time will provide them their fruit for which they didn’t even work. Hard work and consistency play yet another major roles.   

   4. Where is my career going?

People working aimlessly are more likely to fall into this lattice. Because according to me, the ones who are working with an aim are never uncertain of the dreams they are pursuing. People working with a cause need not given any understanding about the rights or wrongs they might follow, rather they choose their paths and keep on working for it, irrespective of any circumstance, amid every suffering, within any walls. They’ve got their sight fixed on their targets. While people unsure about what their career is really up to are the ones, who either, very easily get demotivated with a little jerk or are not satisfied and contented with the work they are performing while the ones with a clear vision give others a benefit of doubt and are ready to take risks.

5.     What should I be most grateful for?

The ultimate gift of life, you are living right now, is the only thing, everybody should feel the most grateful about. Another thing one should feel blessed about is the amount of love and care you find around you; through your family and friends and teachers and pets etc. because many out there are craving for this feeling of being loved and to love. Next and the last thing you should feel grateful about is your ability to feel and react. While some people out there are so oblivious that they can hardly connect to other beings on this earth but people like you and me have born with the capability to sense, care, protect, protest and what not! So why not be grateful for us first? Our existence first? Because these materialistic things would one day lose their meaning and importance, but we humans even after dying remain eternal in somebody’s heart, in somebody’s mind or in memories.

-Crystall✨