It Is Okay To Be Flawed!
Do you want
to be in good books of everyone?
Do you want
to be treated special?
Do you want
to be the center of attention in a group?
Well, this
blog today, is not gonna be anything about ‘tips to get famous’ or ‘how
to be celebrated’ kinda topics. This blog today is all about how okay it is
to be flawed. We always have been so conscious about our bodies, behaviors, attitudes, and conducts. We take eternity to grow ourselves into
somebody, we’ve always admired. We take forever to transform ourselves into what
the society demands us to be (#Following the trend). But we never bring ourselves
down to the thought about why isn’t it okay to be what we’ve been grown with. Why
isn’t it okay to live with what we’ve inherited? Why isn’t it okay the way it
is?
People usually
feel bad and curse themselves for being fat, or having a face full of scars, or
not being able to work in a certain way and god knows what not! They
continuously blame themselves for the fact, that they aren’t as capable as the
people they aspire are. In this whole process, they mislead themselves to an
extent, where they start talking and behaving in the same way. But least do they
know that bare imitating the other person won’t lead them to become the same person.
People need to understand that each person born on this earth has his/her own
aura, own vibe, a little something that differentiates them from others and by
mere imitating someone, they can’t steal all of it from them. Rather, all what
would happen is that in this whole procedure, they would miss out on their own
self. They would lose the only thing that separates them from the crowd.
Forgetting all
of it, first let’s find out the reasons for why everybody today craves for attention.
- · To feel dominant
- · To feel special
- · To feel loved
- · To manipulate
- · To influence and so on…
Now let’s have
a glimpse on what they do to gain attention.
- · Imitate
- · Exaggerate
- · Manipulate
- · Pretend
- · Use the fake card
Time to look
at the kind of people who are in a desperate need to seek attention.
- · People with low self esteem
- · People with less self-respect
- · People with deadly sufferings
- · People with insecurity and trust
issues
- · People who don’t feel self sufficient
Often, you
would hear people referring somebody as ‘flawless’, just by looking at his/her
face, figure, physique, clothes etc etc. I mean how silly and irrelevant of
them to even believe that there can be somebody who’s completely ‘flawless’. Nothing
on this earth is ever flawless. From a human body to the evergreen beautiful nature,
from the open wide sea to little crawling insects; nothing is perfect. Is it so unrecognizable that due to the existence of word ‘imperfect’, there is the survival
of word ‘perfect’? Or that the existence of word ‘flaw’ validates the survival
of the word ‘flawless’?
It is okay
to feel the beauty and imagine the positivity every time but it is even more
okay to stumble and trip in life, to know that it won’t cause you any pain to
be you, to understand that it’s completely effortless to act you and it is completely
acceptable to value your flaws. Trust me, being broken makes much more sense than
to pretend being tough and unbreakable, for the shattered pieces have nothing
to lose while the resilient continuously live in the fear to lose out!
-Crystall✨
True 💯
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