Crystallwrites

Isn’t it funny how we feel we vibe with someone really well but all the while we never realize the infinity that they are holding in within themselves? Yes, we sure do  know  them so dang well but that’s not the point. The question is how much do we  understand  them? How much do we hear their unsaid problems, answer their unasked questions, or see their unseen tears?    Get your mental health journal in just 500 bucks! People putting up a face every freaking day and showing up with their hidden vulnerable self to this world, this blog is all for you. I don’t know how you manage to do it but hey, I want you to know that there’s no one stronger than y’all and I am so incredibly proud of you. I want you to know that you’re the most beautiful and amazing broken person out there:) It is weird how no one can understand “feelings”. It is like we want people to know what we’re going through but cannot frame the right sentences to explain it. Or maybe somehow,...

The thing is that we easily surrender. We give in to our problems. We make our minds believe that we are weak, and are not worth it. We find peace in running away from difficulties than facing them. Because why not? I believe that the majority of our problems arise from procrastination to deal with them. We take them for granted until they turn into an unsolvable disaster. No doubt, every one of us wants to live an unproblematic, simple life but how many of us dare to get deeply involved in our shit to find out the actual cause of it all?     Well, I don’t see even one person in my vicinity. This is where we all go wrong. This is why we never tend to learn from our mistakes and unknowingly repeat them, time and again. We never care to dig deep into the roots. We just pluck out that one ugly leaf that’s bothering us, which is never the solution. Life can be made simpler just by keeping in mind the aftereffects/ consequences of the stuff that we do. But on the c...

Lately, I’ve been hearing this saying a lot which goes like: “One should feel everything and then let it all go”. Well, finding it cool and new and trendy, I started to believe and practice the same notion. Hence, I opened the door of my heart and started to absorb all my feelings… And by all, I mean ALL! I started to feel every positive and negative emotion that came my way to neutralize all of the chaos in my life and then… I fell prey to depression. I fell prey to negativity. I surrendered. I successfully passed the challenge of “absorbing it all” but when it came to “let it all go”, I couldn’t. I just couldn’t. All that negativity that I had been sucking in throughout had left no place in my body to breathe. I was so overwhelmed with all of it that I could never realize that I was bleeding negativity, I was breathing negativity. Well, so here comes the topic of today’s blog: Falling prey to negativity. The fact that I allowed negativity to come near me in the ...

Ever thought how different your life would’ve been if you wouldn’t have chosen the path that you’re walking on today? I’m sorry for beginning this blog with such a complicated question but be honest, wasn’t that a personal attack? We make certain wrong decisions, regret, cry, mourn for a little longer than before, learn (well, sometimes we don’t and that’s okay;p), gather ourselves back and here we are.   Boom ! A WHOLE NEW VERSION OF OURSELVES! A time like this strikes every person’s life where he/ she finds himself/ herself standing at the starting point of a tough crossroad. One cannot figure out which way to go and which way to avoid. Both the roads equally feel good to go but a sense of doubt also comes across mind at the same time. Now, what to do? -Should I choose any of the roads and then see what happens next? -Should I wait here at the starting point and start calculating the repercussions first? -Or should I just believe in myself and pick the one my heart provokes me t...