Accept Not To Expect!
Ever given a thought about how potent this word ‘HOPE’ is? While
on the contrary how flawed the word ‘EXPECTATION’ is?
Or ever given a thought about how expectations are nothing
but gradual destruction of beautiful fortitude?
How magical and fanciful is it to think about a place where
you belong to, which has no misery around, no labyrinth you are stuck in and
wherever your eyes roll, all you see is winsome smiles and irresistible vibe?
Oh! Well, here you are known to the fact of this place being completely unreal in
existence and having no factual basis. Therefore, you ‘WISH’ to belong to this
place. Or how about when I say that you actually ‘HOPE’ to be the belonging of
such setting.
Okay! Now how about I ask you regarding the pressure you feel
when somebody asks you to be the best in each field possible, not because you
are that capable and they know it, but because they want you to be? Or maybe
they ‘EXPECT’ you to be. Quite stressful huh?
When you hope for certain things to happen, it means you are
known to the actual realities you are going to face, yet you wish things to be
changed for how you want them to be. While when you expect for things to
happen, it means you are blinding your vision to actuality and aimlessly
thinking for stuff that may or may not end up being in your favor.
There have been times when I’ve heard people saying, that
they’ve grown hopeless over the years, that a word named “tranquility”
has all of a sudden vanished from their lives, or even saying that all they
want is an escape. Escape from tangibility, escape from truth, escape from every
pain that they don’t want to keep alive anymore. People after being knocked off
by life, more than once, tend to surrender at a point, believing that some part
of their happiness has silenced forever. But does all this happen because they
initially hoped? Or because they expected? They know that expectations hurt
real bad, if been broken repeatedly. But you know what the tough irony is?
People mask hope, while deep down somewhere, they still expect and hence
the process continues.
How ambiguous and vague, life is for some people, yet they
let the flames of hope pave their ways. While there are some others who,
irrespective of already being known to the consequences, don’t wish to
compromise on their thoughts. They keep expecting and vandalizing their own
self, they keep preaching falsity and sabotaging their own self. They prefer to
run away and still end up in a state they never want to be in. They want some
miracle to happen, when they are the ones deciding and destroying their own
fates.
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