After so long…
Disclaimer: Just beginning this blog with some trashy random thoughts. You can ignore it and scroll down to the content directly:)
There are
moments in life when one begins to think that everything is over. Like
everything is just finished. It is that time in life when losing seems less
difficult than winning, when giving up seems much easier than trying
continuously, when everything is so vague to consider any glint of light on the
other side.
People
usually ask where are you lost? Why have you ghosted everybody? What’s wrong?
I say- I’m
lost in a labyrinth of my own thoughts. I’ve ghosted the entire outer world to
find peace within my actual inner world. Because when all other crack-heads
would be bawling their eyes out
to find satisfaction, my own world would be guiding me towards light.
Usually
people crave for the unfinished stories. But aren’t they supposed to be that
way? Isn’t it meant to be unfinished to call it unfinished? Still they want a
freaking ending.
Now, where
is the problem?
People fret
about everything finishing but ultimately end up wanting a finish. I mean isn’t
it weird that you want for something to happen and ultimately end up
contradicting your own thoughts?
Okay! Enough of these dim thoughts and questions! Time for the actual content:)
So,
today’s blog is about an important topic: mental breakdown and how to cope with
it.
You may have
heard this thought a lot which says: “It is okay to not feel okay”.
But is it
really?
Living in a
world of denial and continuously thinking that it is okay won’t lead you
anywhere. My personal opinion says that you need to comprehend this fact that
it is not okay! That there is something wrong and you need to figure it
out in order to fix it. Obviously, you are gonna find comfort sitting at a
place and crying for no reason but does it really help? Do your tears really
stop? Do you feel that weight off your head and do you all of a sudden go back
to happy zone after sitting for a whole freaking day and weeping for no reason?
Probably no.
Then what to
do? Just think that it is okay and continue living that way?
No!
Every time
you step out of your comfort zone to do something that your mind resists to do,
is the time when you write your fate all by yourself. You push yourself
against the direction of what you’re destined to do. Now this is something
which makes you courageous! Accepting something which your body refuses and
adapting to newness over something which your body already preserves, makes you
come out of that aura of darkness.
The world of
negativity and darkness leaves you at the starting point of two crossroads. Out
of these two, one says to give up and let it all go, while the other suggests
you to hang tight and that you are gonna ace it all after this. Some people out
there choose the first and others dare to walk on the second. The main
difference between the two is the will to find the closures to what
they’ve already begun. Not that people who leave in the middle are any less on
confidence or will power but they let failures channelise their way.
They don’t focus on the art to learn from failures.
Things become so much easy and sorted the second you dip out of hard work, right? And maybe this relief helps you to remain happy for some time. But what after, say 6 months? How would you escape that time when you would ultimately have to start from the scratch all over again? You go back in time, make yourself vulnerable to situations, refrain yourself to begin by making excuses and ultimately end up sitting back.
The stress
in your mind won’t expand its reach unless you allow it to. Forcing yourself
and becoming a little harsh to yourself would never harm. Sometimes to just know
what you want is not enough. It demands passion, consistency and courage. To
just dream about something is not enough but a will to fulfil helps. To just think
that it is gonna be okay won’t help but to make efforts to make it okay will.
-Crystall✨
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