You cannot satisfy everyone!

Are you a bouquet of beautiful flowers?

Or an ice cream?

Or maybe a view of city lights?

Probably thinking if I’m drunk writing, right?

Chill buddy! I’m not. I know I may sound absurd but trust me you’ll get this right if you continue to read.

Okay, so isn’t ‘NO’ the very obvious answer to all the above asked questions? Of course, it is!

And yes, exactly this is the topic of today’s blog.

YOU CAN’T SATISFY EVERYONE, BECAUSE:

·       You’re not a bouquet of flowers

·       Neither are you an ice cream

·       Nor even a view of serene city lights.

You’re freaking a normal human being with all complicated emotions within you. You can feel anger and get upset. You can feel happy about something and still cry. You might not be able to express at one moment and in the other you might become way more expressive about your thoughts and ideas. You might be able to convince someone at a moment while feel totally at loss of words in the other. Now this doesn’t really make you weird. Nor does it signify that there is something wrong with you. Every other human on this earth goes through this gush of emotions. Many are capable to keep their point or justify their lives even while they’re suffering while many fail terribly at it.

We often perceive the other person to be lying when he/ she is seen shaking while describing any incident. We often perceive the other person to be untruthful when he/she is caught smiling while explaining a happening. In other words, we are way faster to judge people than to understand them. We often very easily believe the person with a poker face on to be true than a person who can’t control his/ her expressions. Moreover, as someone said it rightly that we only believe on things, which we want to believe on. We only see the perspective, which we wish to see. And we intentionally refrain ourselves to look at the other side of the coin.

Hurry: Get your bundle of inspiration

Many times, our judgement comes out to be satisfactory while many other times, we tend to lose the people whom we are the closest to. But this is the way life works. Doesn’t it? We cannot hold on to each favorite person of ours. We cannot always understand their mental state. We cannot always poke our noses into their lives. All we can do is to just make them understand, guide them, apologize to them, share our secrets with them, but can never live them. There’s no way possible to physically feel the pain or take the suffering of someone other to ourselves. Therefore, we can never know what the other person is in the need of at a certain moment. We can of course try to console, make them feel less burdened or maybe crack jokes to lighten the mood. But how it turns out to backfire at you is a completely different story. The person on the side of pain can often take your efforts as a mocking at his/ her situation. No matter how close the person is to you; no matter how many years you’ve been together; no matter how well you know the unspoken words of each other, a time would surely come where that other half of you would feel unsatisfied with you and vice versa. Because there’s much more to pain. Felicity is fake, agony is real…

Well why just look at sufferings? Why not we hop to the cherishing moments? We always want our best people to remain just ours. We expect the world from them. We expect that we should be the first person to know about their every new happening. We should be the first one with whom they celebrate their happiness and share their grief.

Crux: We expect a lot!

But have you ever heard that expectations always hurt? Or have you ever heard about the concept of priority and that priority of each person changes with the change in time and place and situations? Not that the amount of love lessens but just the attention gets diverted. Then why do we blame people of changing altogether or being less attentive to us or hurting us? Isn’t it crystal clear at this point that we don’t care to care about other’s feelings? All we care about is our own selves, our emotions, our feelings, our situations. We often forget that it’s not just us who is living a life; others also have a life of their own, problems of their own, situations of their own… And hence, even after trying our hardest we fail at people. Either intentionally or unintentionally, both ways neither the other person we expect can keep us happy and nor we can keep the other person happy all the time.

C'mon! Let's just create memories.

 Among a group of 20 people, there’ll still be at least 5 of them, with whom you never talked or interacted with, or never did any harm to them but they still would have a feeling of hatred towards you. And the same happens with you as well. Feel me? Yeah right. I know, I know that this creates another confusion about how any random person can hate me or why am I not able to give out any good vibe to another person? Hey! Didn’t you just find your answer in your question itself?

 It’s the vibe!

We often feel some kind of energies around us in the form of vibes. You must have frequently seen people talking about the positive/ negative vibe whenever they enter a new house or while listening to any random song or while surfing pictures on pintrest. Yes, in the very same way, we people also emit some kind of vibes to the people around. You can yourself feel the connect with the right ones and a disconnect with the people who don’t get you vibing. Now when we come back to people who hate you for no reason, we conclusively say that it’s just the vibe until they’ve not fallen for any stupid rumour about you;) It’s not that you have some problem with you that the other feels disconnected to you but it’s just that everybody is not you! Everybody out there has a different sense of belonging. While you are an extrovert, many introverts wouldn’t feel you as their type which doesn’t anywhere mean that you don’t make sense to the rest of the world.

In other words, it’s just that the already imbibed thoughts in your sub conscious mind don’t wanna face the reality of your conscious mind which is not okay because you can’t always please yourself by living in an imaginary world. You will have to come out at a point and face the harsh realities and the day you become a pro at it would be the day that you’ll feel more than proud of your self and come out to be more ferocious than ever, loaded with the bundle of magic and glory…

-Crystall✨

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