You've Got To Force Yourself!

What bothers you the most about yourself?

 What freaks you out the most about yourself?

What would come to your mind, if somebody stares at you continuously?

Ah! Here come some expected answers:

-Is the person laughing at me or talking about me?

-Does my face not look nice?

-Do my clothes not look good?

-Is my hair a mess? And so on…

Well, I wasn’t asking about your physical appearance guys! I aimed at asking about your mental muddle and many of you (majority if not all) would’ve ended up replying in terms of your physical facade. Weird right?

Okay! In detail, we go about the last question: Every time you see somebody talking or laughing while he/ she is staring at you, what gets you uncomfortable? What comes first to your mind? Basically, nothing but if there is something or anything inappropriate about you!

[Note: The above example is apart from the situations, where a girl/boy can really feel the improper sight of someone else on their bodies. So, hey guys, I got you here!]

Ever thought of how some people are the real reasons behind their helplessness? Like guys, come on! People nowadays freak out even for the tiniest and stupidest things that result them in the toughest and ugliest problems. Not because they worry about themselves that much, but more because they worry about what others are gonna think about them.

So yeah! This is the topic today about. Your mental muddle; the real reason behind the majority of your miseries, the true logic behind most of your distress and the ultimate ground of your groundless life; thoughts that you assume, surmise and ultimately believe to be true, even when they aren’t.

 As I mentioned earlier about people, narrowing their thoughts over things which don’t even need a bit of their attention but they do engage themselves in and end up being into some real disturbance. They wanna hold onto things, which aren’t meant to be theirs, they wanna hold onto people who aren’t supposed to be a part of their lives, they wanna hold onto gestures which don’t even suit their personalities. But they do want to! They continuously tend to make their lives complex by turning the simplest of issues to hardest of matters, by turning the pointless subjects to concerned questions and what not! They worry even for the fact that they are worrying!

Oh! did I hear someone asking about what next?

So up next comes the cycle of hurting themselves all by their own self and then asking for help. Now this element has a twist in it. Therefore, either they go asking for help to a wrong person or they are themselves wrong for asking help about something that doesn’t even has any physical appearance, meaning that nobody can literally feel or understand about the kind of help you are actually asking for! Simple yet complicated, right? I bet this would’ve got you into some real confusion. Okay! Tell me what things can you practically fix? A device, or an object or a fight, or maybe even a person if we get deeper, a broken relationship. But can you fix somebody else’s thoughts? Their dreams? Their beliefs? Maybe yes, you can change somebody’s perspective over things but once for all can you ever control their minds? Or can you get into somebody’s brain and ask them to change their ideology over certain things or get that thought in your hand and throw it out somewhere far? Well, up till now, I’m still known to the answer NO! Then, ultimately which help are you actually asking for? When you are aware of the fact that nobody but you have that access to your mind?

[Note: If hypnotism comes to anybody’s mind, then lemme clear it out that, here I’m referring and aiming to hypothetical situations where you can access somebody else’s thoughts so it’s gone forever while when we talk about a hypnotized person, then he’ll be himself again as soon as he is hypnotized.]

Now the next and last and I bet the most important question pops up about what to do to get out of your mental muddle. Well, if you’ve made this far, then you would’ve definitely sensed some kind of casual approach on this important matter. But when I’ll tell you about its solution, you’ll be more than bewildered as ever, because it says to simply ‘Force Yourself’ because sometimes you need to. Because sometimes this is actually what is needed. Now, here force doesn’t mean to be harsh on yourself or get tyrannical upon yourself. It basically means to force the thoughts, that ruin your peace, out of your mind. Force the ideology, that doesn’t keep up with your character, out of your brain. Force the notion, that doesn’t let you be you, out of your head, because you are your ultimate help. Because you are your only savior.

 It sure would be hard, would might feel resentful and for sure, time consuming. Healing might be difficult, curing might be obscure, fighting might be tiring. But in the end trust would keep you going. Trust, that this vagueness would clear. Trust, that everything would ultimately fall in place. Trust, that this effort of your existence wouldn’t end up in vain.

-Crystall✨