Because You Are Not To Be Blamed Anymore...

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Who is responsible for your miseries?

Who is accountable for that ache in your heart?

Who is answerable for that mess in your mind?

You? Someone else? Situations? Or consequences?

Ans: Maybe everything. Maybe none of them.

Sometimes, your life is not really lead by you. You are not able to control things, and handle stuff. You work your sweat and blood to achieve a goal and suddenly you are knocked off by life with a low blow. You are at the peak of your carrier and suddenly you come to know about someone very dear to you, battling for life. You think you are enough capable to solve a problem on your own but suddenly situations shove away your patience and you end up worsening things…

Therefore, you cannot blame yourself or any other above mentioned contexts for your sufferings. Now you’d wanna know what is this actually which holds you, restrains you and controls you; irony being that you are totally aware of this magic yet somewhere ignorant towards it. Well, above each effort of yours, above each struggle of yours and above each belief of yours is a power called fate. Something, which people usually confuse with luck and relate as destiny.

There’s a force which is continuously guiding you to perform tasks you never considered to be worth enough your try. There’s a plan which is continuously working in your routine, getting you into troubles and taking you on a roller-coaster ride and coming back with an absolute random ending. There’s a thinking which is continuously provoking you to do the undo able, stimulating you to imagine the unimaginable and evoking in you the urge of learning the unlearn able and that, my friend is termed, fate.

You often cherish some happy coincidences, but ever thought about the home to coincidence? Ever thought about, how in the population of 7.8 billion people, why you were only known to a bunch of them? Forget for a specific time, but in your whole lifetime? Ever thought about why life taught you those lessons which were meant to be taught to others, whom it could’ve been of great help?

Thinking about the uncertainty of lives, present seems to be an elixir. An epiphany of solitude seems a pure thought, while thinking about the unpredictable future. A sudden sense of tranquility emerges, while thinking of elegance of eternity. So why not enjoy, being puppets of our own fates? Why not have fun, on this ride of some happy and sad moments? Why not prefer to stay, than to run away? After all you are not to be blamed anymore…

 -Crystall✨

 


Comments

  1. :)June 29, 2020 at 1:20 AM

    But isn't that what bothers me the most? Even if I know I'm not to blame completely, there are people who blame me for all that happens?
    Doesn't it hurt like hell?
    Doesn't it make you feel like it's all useless?
    Like the pain is too much?
    Like life is meaningless anyway?
    Like if you were dead, at least people would begin to care for a moment?
    Like people might realise their mistakes?
    Like you might for once get the minimal amount of recognition you should've gotten for existing with the weight of living?
    Do you never feel like if you were crushed by the weight of living, you'd fly away in peace?
    Do you never feel like getting stomped on by life is required to show others the pain involved?
    If you don't, try to think on those terms.
    At the end of the day, everyone dies.
    Everyone.
    Let that sink in.
    Everyone who lives, shall die.
    Today or tomorrow. Or maybe in a week. Or a few years.
    And there will be no difference in the world.
    Even if life was completely wiped out at this very instant, the universe would not have changed practically, at all.
    Think about that.
    Then why live?
    Of course if you are getting enough rushes of happiness and other positive feelings, you might have a few reasons to live this meaningless eternity in a larger eternity.
    But if all you get is pain and you cannot take it anymore, why not just let go? Especially if you are not to blame? :)

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  2. Cortney SchulteJuly 28, 2020 at 3:21 AM

    Very thought provoking. I tend to blane myself for the good and bad, although that is not always a good idea either

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  3. Deepika NanchahalJuly 28, 2020 at 4:49 AM

    Yes right... Bad or good.. just enjoy the moments.. because eveeything passes with time

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